Married but celibate? Steve Harvey dives into this unexpected twist on marriage!
Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 23 years, I've been married to the nicest guy in the world and I have always tried to be the perfect wife and mother. It's been a beautiful journey filled with love, mutual respect, and understanding. However, there’s a significant aspect of our marriage that has been less than perfect, and that’s our intimacy. Astonishingly, we've been celibate for the majority of our marriage.
Yes, you read that right! Despite being together for over two decades, our physical relationship has been almost non-existent. At first, it was due to health issues that my husband faced. With time, it simply became our norm. While our bond remains strong and we continue to support each other in all aspects, this has been a silent struggle for me.
When I turned to Steve Harvey and Shirley for advice, I was seeking insight into how to reignite that spark and balance the scales between our emotional and physical intimacy. Steve’s advice was both compassionate and practical. He emphasized the importance of open communication and understanding each other's needs. It's not just about the physical aspect, he said, but about connecting on all levels.
Interestingly, celibacy in marriages is more common than you might think. Research suggests that a significant percentage of couples deal with similar issues, often in silence. Studies show that at least 15% to 20% of couples experience periods of celibacy, with health issues, stress, and emotional disconnect being primary factors. It's a reminder that the perfect marriage isn't defined by how often you're physical, but by how well you support and love each other through thick and thin.
Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 23 years, I've been married to the nicest guy in the world and I have always tried to be the perfect wife and mother.