Kramer appeared on Facebook's “Red Table Talk” to discuss her marriage with former NFL player Mike Caussin and their 2021 divorce. The two share daughter Jolie, ...
I’ve forgiven. I’ve loved hard. I’ve fought, y’all.
Jana Kramer shares son Jace, 3, and daughter Jolie, 6, with ex-husband Mike Caussin.
"I hated Christmas because I had to separate Christmas and that was stressful," she continued explaining. A source told PEOPLE at the time the split was due to Caussin's infidelity. "That's not fair." The pair [split in April](https://people.com/country/jana-kramer-mike-caussin-divorcing-due-to-infidelity/) after nearly six years of marriage. When discussing why she continuously forgave and stayed in the relationship, she noted one of the things holding her back was trauma from her own parents' divorce. "That's when I get like, that's not fair.
In a preview clip from her interview on Red Table Talk Wednesday, Jada Pinkett Smith asked Jana Kramer how many times Caussin allegedly cheated — and ...
It's amazing and I'm so grateful, but I also realize how important it is to really take the other days that I don't to just really decompress and take care of things I have to take care of so that when I'm with them I'm not stressed," said Kramer, who shares daughter Jolie Rae, 6, and son Jace Joseph, 3½, with Caussin. Forgiveness isn't for the other person, it is for me so that I don't have to be shackled down by the past." Because again, the 70%, it's a lot and it's a lot on me and the kids. "It was from me and that was in a way ... I have the kids 70% of the time, so I have them a lot. She continued, "I remember just going like, 'I don't want to have to be the one to carry this stuff. And it was so healing and so helpful." Me and my girlfriends took a bat to it and we just shattered it," she admitted in an exclusive clip from "That's not fair." "Then I destroyed all his Xboxes that he said was his only vice. "I know we're both in better situations. "I shattered so many things in my house ...
Jana Kramer was angry when she was ordered to pay her cheating ex-husband Mike Caussin child support but has come to terms with the legal arrangement.
[ suffered from an addiction to sex](https://pagesix.com/2019/04/01/jana-kramer-talks-husbands-sex-addiction-battle-im-so-proud-of-his-strength/#!) and in April 2021, the “I Got the Boy” singer [ filed for divorce](https://pagesix.com/2021/04/21/jana-kramer-hints-at-mike-caussin-split-on-instagram/), accusing Caussin [of adultery. “Let it out and then let’s eat and drink our feelings 😂😂.” That one’s gonna hurt,” she said with tears in her eyes. They rekindled their relationship and renewed their vows in December 2017. “And so it was hard for me to wrap my mind around that, having to pay him.” I get it.”
Kramer and Caussin officially called it quits in April 2021 after six years of marriage.
I would say it's pieced back together," Kramer said of her heart at the time. "I came from a broken family, and my whole thing was, I do not want my children to grow up in a broken house," she stressed. "Please know that I still believe wholeheartedly in marriage, love, and rebuilding. "I'm on the road, I'm traveling, like, 'How would I know?' and she goes, 'Look through the phone bills.' And I looked through the phone bill, and started calling these numbers, and that's when I found out the truth." You don't get to do what you did, and then take my child away from me." "Thank you for all the love, heart, and support, in many ways you have fought on this journey alongside me, and for that I am grateful. Kramer sat down with the ladies of [Red Table Talk](https://www.facebook.com/redtabletalk/) Wednesday for an episode about toxic forgiveness, where she shared that her desire to create a family allowed her to forgive Caussin over and over again. [ultimately ended things that month](https://www.etonline.com/jana-kramer-and-mike-caussin-split-after-6-years-of-marriage-164422) after six years of marriage. It's time to heal," she continued. We can grow together," Kramer, who shares daughter Jolie, 6, and son Jace, 3, with the former football player, shared. I think I didn't want to believe it," Kramer said. "I hated Christmas because I had to separate Christmas, and that was stressful, and I want my kids under my one roof.
“And that's when I get like, 'That's not fair. You took away my dream, too, of what I wanted for my family,' ” she continues. The former couple shares two ...
For more articles like this please visit [www.etonline.com](http://www.etonline.com) [ultimately ended things in 2021](https://www.etonline.com/jana-kramer-and-mike-caussin-split-after-6-years-of-marriage-164422) after six years of marriage. The country singer opens up about [ex-husband](https://www.etonline.com/jana-kramer-cites-inappropriate-marital-conduct-and-adultery-in-divorce-filing-from-husband-mike) Mike Caussin’s alleged infidelities during the course of their marriage and the part of their split that she deems most unfair. “Thank you for all the love, heart, and support, in many ways you have fought on this journey alongside me, and for that I am grateful. “I wouldn’t think it’s broken. I would say it’s pieced back together,” Kramer said of her heart at the time. “Please know that I still believe wholeheartedly in marriage, love, and rebuilding. “And that’s when I get like, ‘That’s not fair. I’ve forgiven. I’ve loved hard. Kramer and Caussin [ finalized their divorce](https://www.etonline.com/jana-kramer-and-mike-caussin-finalize-divorce-169342) in July of that year, three months after Kramer announced their split. [Jana Kramer](https://www.etonline.com/people/jana-kramer) is getting real about the continued fallout from her [divorce](https://www.etonline.com/jana-kramer-on-how-her-new-song-helped-her-through-divorce-and-diving-into-dating-again-exclusive).
Jana Kramer discussed her ex-husband Mike Caussin's infidelity and how it affected her "dream" of what she wanted for her family on "Red Table Talk."
In the book, the couple offer lessons readers can use "to give and receive lasting love," the description adds. That was the singer's last straw, she says, because two weeks prior she had already "begged him" to tell the truth. Earlier in the episode, Kramer shares, "I came from a broken family and my whole thing was, I do not want to grow up in a broken house. "It's time to heal," she continued. According to its Amazon description, the book is about how Kramer and Caussin "decided to honor their forever love by battling it out and staying together, told from both sides." Sometimes it takes years," she says. "Thank you for all the love, heart, and support, in many ways you have fought on this journey alongside me, and for that I am grateful. The two later reconciled and said they were working on their marriage. "And that's when I get like, 'That's not fair. When she caught him cheating last April, her ex-husband promised again that he "never" do it again. "I know we're both in better situations, but I think about this year my kids won't wake up in my house Christmas day," she says, choking back tears. "Over time you found out he cheated with 13 women?"
She opens up about him allegedly cheating with "more" than thirteen women -- and where the two stand now.
Kramer claimed Caussin said their podcast was also "a catalyst" for his cheating, because it put the spotlight on him and even more "pressure to be perfect." She added that, on top of his cheating, the fact he also lied to her when she "begged him" to just be honest about his affairs only made it worse. I don't think I'm ready for an every, once a month thing." I'm like, I'm not going to change my route anymore." "I came from a broken family and my whole thing was I do not want my children to grow up in a broken house," she said of initially staying with him. We got divorced for a reason!" "I used to avoid this one route so I wouldn't see a certain hotel that I knew he slept with some people with," she said, "so I avoided it but then that made it even worse in my chest. "That's not fair." She then started to tear up as Smith said her experience "has to be really painful." "I'm like, 'Oooh, I want that better man." That one's gonna hurt," Kramer continued, getting choked up and fighting back tears. Though she says he kept trying to better himself, she started calling numbers up on the phone bill and allegedly found out he was still being unfaithful.
"I went real crazy for a minute," Jana Kramer said, revealing everything she destroyed when she finally decided to leave ex Mike Caussin.
"I hated Christmas because I had to separate Christmas and that was stressful and I want my kids under one roof. They were honest about their struggles on their podcast, then called "Whine Down with Jana Kramer and Mike Caussin." "My whole thing was, 'I do not want my children to grow up in a broken house," she told Smith, Banfield Norris, and Zampino. Kramer said she also "destroyed" all of Caussin's gaming systems, which he told her were his "only vice." She looked at the phone bill and called numbers she didn't recognize to confirm that it was indeed true. [Wednesday's "Red Table Talk,](https://www.facebook.com/redtabletalk/videos/459084922744208/)" she revealed to hosts Jada Pinkett Smith, Adrienne Banfield Norris, and their guest co-host Sheree Zampino that the former NFL player cheated on her with more than 13 women.